Do I Have to Tell My Partner I Want an Abortion?

February 27, 2025

Facing an unplanned pregnancy is a deeply personal experience, and deciding whether to share your decision to have an abortion with your partner can be challenging.

At First Choice Pregnancy Services, we provide support, accurate information, and a compassionate space to explore all your options.

You owe it to yourself to be as educated as possible before making any pregnancy decision—and we’re here to help. Read on to learn more about whether you’re legally required to tell your partner (spoiler alert: no) and why, even though you don’t have to, you might want to.

Do You Have to Tell Your Partner?

Legally, you are not required to inform your partner about your decision to have an abortion. The choice about how to move forward in the pregnancy is yours alone.

However, maintaining open and honest communication is important if you envision a future with your partner. Sharing your thoughts can foster trust and understanding in your relationship, and it will also give your partner permission to be honest about his feelings.

Keep in mind that this conversation might bring up strong emotions, so it’s helpful to approach it with patience and sensitivity. Realize that your partner might not respond how you’d hoped, but this initial conversation can open the door for deeper dialogues after everyone’s had time to process the news.

Learn About Your Pregnancy Options

Before making any decision, take the time to gather as much information as possible about your pregnancy options. Whether you’re considering abortion, parenting, or adoption, understanding the risks, benefits, and available resources can help you feel confident in your choice.

At First Choice Pregnancy Services, we offer free and confidential pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, and pre-abortion screenings to provide you with the information you need to move forward. Our goal is to empower you to make a decision that aligns with your values and circumstances without pressure or judgment.

It’s important to note that while we don’t perform or refer for abortions, we believe that you deserve to have all the facts—especially when it comes to a decision as permanent and risky as abortion.

A Decision Only You Can Make

Deciding whether to share your plans with your partner is a personal choice. If you feel safe and supported in your relationship, having an honest conversation can strengthen your connection and help you move forward together.

However, if you feel unsafe or unsupported, prioritize your well-being and seek additional guidance from trusted friends, family, or counselors.

We’re Here for You

You don’t have to navigate this process alone. First Choice Pregnancy Services is here to provide the care, resources, and support you need to make an informed decision with confidence and clarity.

Don’t delay. Before seeking an abortion or deciding whether or not to tell your partner, contact our office to find a safe, supportive space to talk and ask questions.

You’re not alone in this. We’re here for you.

First Choice Pregnancy Services does not provide or refer for abortions.